There are currently 7 names in this directory
things that participants agree or don't agree to do. May include items such as specific implements, level of undress, and other aspectsof a scene. See also, "Hard Limits" and "Soft Limits"
process which both parties define what the scene may include. Typically includes discussion of hard limits, as well as what both want to get from the spanking.
contact with a trusted third-party or friend outside of the Top/Bottom pair to ensure the safety of each participant
agreed upon term which, when uttered, stops any and all spanking activity for the purpose of physical, mental and emotional protection
There are currently 16 names in this directory
noun - term for the role chosen by the person receiving the spanks. verb - to choose such a role.
term for the role chosen by the Bottom. This person has asked a Mentor to help them enforce an agreed upon rules set
term for the role chosen by the Top. This person acts as a role-model for a Mentee and helps to enforce an agreed upon rules set
noun - a person in a spanking partnership who is comfortable being in either the Top or Bottom role. verb - to choose such a role.
Types of Spankings
There are currently 12 names in this directory
Time spent in the corner, normally used before or after the spanking as a time to reflect on the upcoming or recent punishment
a regimen that develops or improves a behavior in accordance with rules, generally proactive
a punishment style spanking session that play-acted without a violation of agreed upon rules.
scheduled spanking that happens at regular intervals to either remind of expectations or maintain consistent stress relief
a spanking session focusing on using the act of spanking to create a sense of ease, release of current stress and life tension; may involve guided breathing and meditation, and often invoking endorphins through spanking
reinforcement of good behavior through a positive experience, may include a fun, relaxation, or Good Girl/Good Boy Spanking
a spanking session focusing on using the act of spanking to create a sense of ease, release of current stress and life tension; may involve guided breathing and meditation, and often invoking endorphins through spanking; see also, "Relaxation"
Types of Implements
There are currently 14 names in this directory
noun - a thin flexible implement normally made from Rattan or Acrylic; verb - to spank with a cane.
Referred to as “Spanking in a bottle,” it crates a heated sensation similar to a spanking when applied to the skin. Often used to relieve arthritis pain. Capzasin is an active ingredient in chili peppers.
object other than open hand used to strike the buttocks (hairbrush, paddle, belt, strap, cane, etc.)
noun - a rigid implement, consisting of a handle and a blade, comes in various shapes and sizes, constructed of various different materials; verb - to spank with a paddle.
noun - a piece of leather, sometimes it has holes. Delivers a sting; verb - to spank with a strap
There are currently 2 names in this directory beginning with the letter L.
Types of Positions
There are currently 5 names in this directory
position with Bottom lays on their back, bending at the waist, bringing their legs up so their buttocks are unobstructed, see also "Legs Up"
position with Bottom laying face down on a surface, often with a pillow under their hips to prop up their buttocks
position with Bottom lays on their back, bending at the waist, bringing their legs up so their buttocks are unobstructed, see also "Diaper Position"
There are currently 11 names in this directory
Pocket of fluid within the upper layers of skin, caused by friction. These can form during or after the spanking
blood pooling in the skin from broken capillaries, caused by trauma. These can form during or after the spanking. Extremely common with the first couple of spankings that a spankee receives
lotion or other product applied to the bottom after the spanking to decrease dryness, bruises or marks
organic chemical released from the brain that plays a major role in the bodies reward driven learning
chemical released by the Pituitary Gland in response to a spanking as the body’s natural pain killer
the feeling used to describe how a person feels after a spanking where endorphins are released
discoloration of or damage to the skin resulting from a spanking (Bruise, Blister, Welts, etc.)
commonly refers to the headspace of being submissive, frequently refers to the endorphin high caused by spanking
There are currently 20 names in this directory
acronym for the collected terms ‘Bondage,’ ‘Discipline,’ ‘Sadism,’ ‘Masochism’ (sometimes including ‘Dominance’ and ‘Submission’); used referring to the larger fetish and alternative-sexuality community of which Spanking is a small part
verb - behavior that includes back talk, snarky comments, and generally pushing the boundaries to intentionally get in trouble
abreviation for "Christian Domestic Discpline," a Domestic Discipline relationship with a Christian religious component
Defined relationship with a Top and bottom to have set rules and expectations, generally within a romantic relationship or when living together
gathering of multiple people sharing a common interest. Often involves, sharing in spanking discussion and/or activities publicly, though this is not required
short for scenario, term generally used to designate the beginning and end of a spanking encounter.
also, Spanko Purist - One who participates in Spanking activities exclusively but shies away from other forms of BDSM play
collective term referring to the implements and articles of clothing left strewn about following a spanking session or party
Used to describe the sensation of a spank, usually from an implement, an implement as light and leaves a stinging sensation on the skin that dissipates quickly
Used to describe the sensation of a spank, usually from an implement, as heavy and leaves a lasting sensation usually deep into the muscle tissue