There are currently 92 names in this directory
acrylic acid or a related compound derivative, translucent or opaque; used to make implements
acronym for the collected terms ‘Bondage,’ ‘Discipline,’ ‘Sadism,’ ‘Masochism’ (sometimes including ‘Dominance’ and ‘Submission’); used referring to the larger fetish and alternative-sexuality community of which Spanking is a small part.
Pocket of fluid within the upper layers of skin, caused by friction. These can form during or after the spanking
noun - term for the role chosen by the person receiving the spanks. verb - to choose such a role.
verb - behavior that includes back talk, snarky comments, and generally pushing the boundaries to intentionally get in trouble
blood pooling in the skin from broken capillaries, caused by trauma. These can form during or after the spanking. Extremely common with the first couple of spankings that a spankee receives
noun - a thin flexible implement normally made from Rattan or Acrylic; verb - to spank with a cane.
Referred to as “Spanking in a bottle,” it crates a heated sensation similar to a spanking when applied to the skin. Often used to relieve arthritis pain. Capzasin is an active ingredient in chili peppers.
abreviation for "Christian Domestic Discpline," a Domestic Discipline relationship with a Christian religious component
Time spent in the corner, normally used before or after the spanking as a time to reflect on the upcoming or recent punishment
lotion or other product applied to the bottom after the spanking to decrease dryness, bruises or marks
an engineering thermoplastic material known for its flexibility and strength; used to make implements, often Canes and Loops
position with Bottom lays on their back, bending at the waist, bringing their legs up so their buttocks are unobstructed, see also "Legs Up"
a regimen that develops or improves a behavior in accordance with rules, generally proactive
Defined relationship with a Top and bottom to have set rules and expectations, generally within a romantic relationship or when living together
organic chemical released from the brain that plays a major role in the bodies reward driven learning
chemical released by the Pituitary Gland in response to a spanking as the body’s natural pain killer.
the feeling used to describe how a person feels after a spanking where endorphins are released
a punishment style spanking session that play-acted without a violation of agreed upon rules.
object other than open hand used to strike the buttocks (hairbrush, paddle, belt, strap, cane, etc.)
position with Bottom laying face down on a surface, often with a pillow under their hips to prop up their buttocks
position with Bottom lays on their back, bending at the waist, bringing their legs up so their buttocks are unobstructed, see also "Diaper Position"
things that participants agree or don't agree to do. May include items such as specific implements, level of undress, and other aspectsof a scene. See also, "Hard Limits" and "Soft Limits"
scheduled spanking that happens at regular intervals to either remind of expectations or maintain consistent stress relief
discoloration of or damage to the skin resulting from a spanking (Bruise, Blister, Welts, etc.)
term for the role chosen by the Bottom. This person has asked a Mentor to help them enforce an agreed upon rules set
term for the role chosen by the Top. This person acts as a role-model for a Mentee and helps to enforce an agreed upon rules set
process which both parties define what the scene may include. Typically includes discussion of hard limits, as well as what both want to get from the spanking.
abbreviation for Over The Knee, a common spanking position in which the Bottom lays across the knee of lap of the Top
noun - a rigid implement, consisting of a handle and a blade, comes in various shapes and sizes, constructed of various different materials; verb - to spank with a paddle.
gathering of multiple people sharing a common interest. Often involves, sharing in spanking discussion and/or activities publicly, though this is not required
a spanking session focusing on using the act of spanking to create a sense of ease, release of current stress and life tension; may involve guided breathing and meditation, and often invoking endorphins through spanking
reinforcement of good behavior through a positive experience, may include a fun, relaxation, or Good Girl/Good Boy Spanking
contact with a trusted third-party or friend outside of the Top/Bottom pair to ensure the safety of each participant
agreed upon term which, when uttered, stops any and all spanking activity for the purpose of physical, mental and emotional protection
short for scenario, term generally used to designate the beginning and end of a spanking encounter.
Limits which are generally in place but may be negotiated with a trusted partner; for example - an implement you are afraid of but may be willing to try with the right partner
also, Spanko Purist - One who participates in Spanking activities exclusively but shies away from other forms of BDSM play
collective term referring to the implements and articles of clothing left strewn about following a spanking session or party
Used to describe the sensation of a spank, usually from an implement, an implement as light and leaves a stinging sensation on the skin that dissipates quickly
noun - a piece of leather, sometimes it has holes. Delivers a sting; verb - to spank with a strap
a spanking session focusing on using the act of spanking to create a sense of ease, release of current stress and life tension; may involve guided breathing and meditation, and often invoking endorphins through spanking; see also, "Relaxation"
commonly refers to the headspace of being submissive, frequently refers to the endorphin high caused by spanking
noun - a person in a spanking partnership who is comfortable being in either the Top or Bottom role. verb - to choose such a role.
a spanking session focusing on resolving or temporarily relieving the stress of underlying mental or emotional issues through a holistic approach of talk therapy, guilt relief and endorphin management
Used to describe the sensation of a spank, usually from an implement, as heavy and leaves a lasting sensation usually deep into the muscle tissue
noun - term for the role chosen by the person delivering the spanks. verb - to choose such a role.
referring to those who don’t share our spanking interest, or in general, those not interested in any BDSM activity