term for the role chosen by the Bottom in an exclusively BDSM relationship

the person receiving the spanks, see also Bottom

The person delivering the spanks, see also Top

short for ‘Submissive,’ term for the role chosen by the Bottom in a primarily BDSM relationship

term for the role chosen by the Bottom in a primarily BDSM relationship

noun - a person in a spanking partnership who is comfortable being in either the Top or Bottom role. verb - to choose such a role.